Okay so my plan was to write about your relationship with money today but I donated blood Thursday, got light headed 2 times that day, slept through my alarm and my kids alarm Friday morning and was in bed most of the rest of Friday since everytime I was on my feet for more then 30 minutes I’d get light headed. Pumped myself full of supplements and beef, slept and was awake at 2 am today. Won’t let that happen again! Next time I donate I pump up the vitamins first!
So meanwhile I found another GREAT question on the Dooce Community I just had to post my answer to here, and it’s about your relationship with your spouse. It was “What do you do that annoys your SweetHeart, and maybe on purpose”:
Several people answered with “leave the light on”, “touch him with cold hands”, “tickle”, etc. Here’s my response:
what a GREAT question. I think I could ditto most everyone’s comments. Leaving lights on is what he does that bugs me, tickling is what I do to bug him. But there are hundreds of other things…. when I was dating I made a list of what I called “toothpaste questions” little things about how things were done around the house that I was NOT going to let get in the way of having a great relationship. I figured if we discussed and agreed on how to roll up the toothpaste, which direction to roll the tp, etc. Then we’d never have to get PO…BOY was I in for a shock! First, I didn’t even bother to ask most of those once the hormones were going and I wanted to be MARRIED! Second, there’s just so many things that can start a tiff that it’s impossible to avoid it. Guess I’m just glad he hangs out with me anyway, he must feel the same cause he’s still around!
